Surely anyone can understand the frustrations involved in being a moderator on this site of dual-identity.
I joined one month ago with some nice pics and was both excited and scared at the prospect of receiving comments and perhaps support for my foray into an unknown world. I certainly haven't been rejected and I thank all of you for that.
However , a month down the line and I realise that I haven't dressed-up since day 2 on the site - and seem to have lost interest in any overt sexual-expression.

This is not why I joined. It's like someone threw a bucket of cold-water over me.

For a site that has something for everyone - there is an enormous amount of dis-embodied small cocks and close-up bumholes that in my opinion , only belong on an out and out gay-site.
I have listened to and shared the woes of my friends on here - mainly by looking at all pics posted since I joined - every day , and commenting on the ones I like.
This is what has driven me to my present state and I can easily understand how someone like Brenda48CD feels after 1 year of devoting time and thought to her job here - which she takes seriously and does well.
God only knows how Joanna Slinky stands it after 5 years!

Since the Admin side of this site is so lacking - then it's time we , as users , took some sort of control over what we wish our site to be.
The only power moderators have is to delete pics and vids - so now I am urging them all to delete absolutely everything that could belong on a gay-site , and rightly so in my opinion.

But , if anyone is offended by this thread , or the drastic actions we must take - please spare a thought for the poor moderators and myself who have to trawl through hundreds of really distasteful pics and vids , when we could be having fun and supporting others instead - not to mention the resulting loss of arousal that we face every time we log-on , with the consequences of questioning every day just what we are doing here.