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Member Since: 20-Mar-06
Location: US
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About being a sissy...
So. Over the past few years, I have been getting into the "Prissy Sissy" aesthetic-- super frilly, pink, baby-ish, hyper feminine look. I think you all know what I mean. And, although I am a little bit into the ADBL aspect of it, that is a little tangential, yet I can find some hotness in that as well. But, getting into this, I realize that a big part of it is contingent on subservience. I mean, I get it-- sissy maid, being hobbled, etc. It's part of the aesthetic. And maybe I am misaligned. But I am not into the power politics of sexuality: Dom and sub, alpha and beta... Part of my being align with femininity is because I really am turned off by what is coined as "toxic masculinity." I mean, I don't want to be with some straight 'bro' who will treat me like shit just to reaffirm his male privilege. I mean, I get that some of us here want that, and I am not judging; it is just not for me. Alignment with femininity for me is about sensuality, and the sublime aspects that are contained within it: softness, gentleness, reciprocity, (and of course, satin, lace ,sheer...). Do any of you all think that there is a space in the sissy aesthetic that supports sissy with sissy? That the "trans-lez" category has a sub-set for what I want and long for?

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Member Since: 13-May-08
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I agree with you. For me, a big part of femininity is being "soft" and "sensual." Yes, there is something to be said about being "femme" in the presence of a hot, hard, male and being "receptive" to his HIS "demanding" needs. But, for me, I also need the opportunity and occasion to the "softer" side of sex with another femme... There's just something about making soft, sensual, love with another gurl... meeting and satisfying the needs of each other as only "sisters" can know and appreciate.

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