I'm a married bi-curious guy that likes to dress in sexy lingerie, panties, bras, stockings, etc. I'm not a full CD with wigs and make up etc. and I am not passable at all and don't want to be. The turn on for me about dressing in women's underwear is the taboo-ness of it and the feelings of embarrassment and humiliation because "you're not supposed to do it". I am definitely submissive when dressed and enjoy serving and pleasing and being "made" to wear lingerie. I wouldn't mind connecting with other local MWMs in the same situation - not getting what you want/need at home but not looking to change your life situation either. It'd be fun to chat over email, talk about and compare likes/turn ons/fetishes and see how it goes then maybe meet up in person and have some fun someday.