Viewing Member - MilesMartel

Well hello, welcome and thank you very much for clicking in. I hope you stick through to the end and it stimulates you to make contact. Forty-something, clean, tidy, discreet, bi cross dresser. Been dressing up on and off since my teens. Marriage has somewhat limited my opportunities to engage in some dressed up fun with a like minded soul. But never give up. Not in it for the full make over (but would really like to try it at least once before my looks and figure start to fade) but the tingly feeling when dressed in something feminine. The usual excitement of walking around with some panties on under my male clothes is as much as I can manage these days. But every so often, the situation presents, where I can get a little more dressing up done. With maturity of years comes a different perspective of what I want to be doing. Being here is certainly part of that and the opportunity to engage with like minded individuals for conversation, tips, tricks and ultimately with the right person, face to face meetings. What harm can come from some conversation about subjects that we both derive pleasure from? Email conversations or online chats are fine and dandy with me. The internet came a little to late for my peak dressing up period so just trying to catch up now whilst I am able. So if you are comfortable with yourself and eager to engage in conversation then let's do it. If the conversation leads to something more physical then perfect. If it doesn't (and not all conversations undertaken are in search of a physical connection as a result) then no harm no foul. I'm especially interested in chatting with fellow cross dressers, who are still 'hiding' that part of their life from a significant other. Conversation can be about most anything. I'm open minded, non-preachy, thoughtful, considerate, polite and not out to force a point of view on you. Whilst happy to chat about fashions, my style is certainly of the 'bedroom slut' style! My tastes change with the seasons but anything tight, shiny and sexy floats my boat. Latex, rubber, pvc, wet look through to silks and nylons. Frilly panties, stockings, body stockings, heels, boots, tight fitting dresses, mini skirts. You get the idea? Recently I have enjoyed slipping in to tight one-piece swimming costumes. This also has piqued an interest in leotards too. Quite like the sissy look on others but not sure it fits with my 'style'. I'll stretch to being a slutty maid but fundamentally I just fancy myself as a cross dressing femdom. So, thanks for reaching this far. I guess you may be interested in hearing about the physical part of this? Well dressing up together for a start and enjoying each other's company - perhaps watch some porn to break the ice. When comfortable to be a little more adventurous then how about some mutual cock play? I'm very oral and love to suck and be sucked to completion. More than happy to provide a stiff cock for practising technique. Do you need to try deep throating? Hands free orgasms? Snowballing? If there's a need for more heated activity then I'm certainly interested in the dom/sub dynamic. Role playing some BDSM action - the usual fun activities (spanking, bondage, cbt, wax, paddles, collar and leash, blindfolds, toys, watersports, discipline) but not all at the same time and all within pre-agreed boundaries if it gets to it. Open to most things so feel free to ask if there's a specific kink that you need working on. Basically, I seek mutually stimulating encounters between two (or more) consenting like-minded cross dressers who each share a desire for sexy uncomplicated fun - either cyber or physical. I'm 175cm tall, 69kg, uncut and good sized cock, blue eyes, salt and pepper short hair, gentle on the eye (so I have been told), good legs, relaxed, calm, educated and widely read. I'm not passable and you don't need to be either. Whilst I'm happy with some body hair I do like things trimmed and clear in the cock and balls area. I keep so trimmed. If you are looking for a fellow cross dresser and any of the foregoing has ticked your boxes then I'd love to hear from you. Miles