I have a fairly extensive toy collection that consists of numerous dildos, leather restraints, ball gags, floggers, a riding crop, lots of rope, two homemade spreader bars, several cock cages, two inflatable butt plugs, a Hitachi Magic Wand, and a fucking machine. Yes, I'm very much into BDSM!!! I have an extremely large dildo that is thirteen inches long and three inches in diameter that took forever to work up to and even then it hurt like hell, but OMG what intense assgasms it produces! That's where the inflatable butt plugs come in handy for training. Also, I would point out that the kind of lube you use (and lots of it), is really important. My personal favorite is Xesso water-based (it's unscented; looks and feels like real cum, and last forever for extended play periods. That said, my favorite dildos are a horse dildo (11 inches by 1-3/4 inches), a six-inch G-Spot vibrator, and the one I call the purple monster (a realistic 9 inches long with a nice curve and all sorts of wonderful ridges with 10 vibration speeds and patterns and it's also waterproof that make taking a bath a hell of a good time! I also have a Lovense Lush 2 for on-the-go fun in the car, the grocery store, or lingerie shopping.