I met an older man who was quite well known in the bi sexual community for his studies on bisexuality. I answered his ad that advertised to have like minded guys come over to his condo, sit around naked and talk about sexuality. Nothing overtly sexual, but a bunch of older age guys sitting around naked and talking. If you met someone and wanted to take it offline so to speak, that was fine, but as a group, this was about talking about being bisexual and each others journey to that end.
I was around 28 or so at the time, and all the other men were older, so I usually was sitting or walking around with a hard on, which was exciting in front of a bunch of older men. One time I showed up and was walking a bit gingerly due to hurting my back. This man noticed and offered to give me a massage if I wanted to stay after everyone else left.
I agreed, thinking maybe something would happen, lol. So after everyone left, he had me lay out on his bed, and started to work my shoulders, back, and lower back where the pain was. He was very good, my back began to loosen up and things were feeling great. Then I felt his hands massaging my ass, spreading my cheeks with his oiled fingers just grazing my asshole. I started breathing faster and really getting turned on by all the new sensations. This continued with his fingers then just brushing against my asshole and I thought I had a heart attack !
Then, I felt my cheeks spread very wide and then, his warm breath all over my hole. I had read about rimming but never had it done to me before. The next thing I feel is the tip of his tongue at the top of my ass crack, slowly slide down towards my hole, and at the last minute, slide to the side of it. My hips were off the bed, arching my ass towards his tongue, driving me crazy. This went on for 10 minutes or so, wet laps of his tongue on either side of my hole, getting closer each time and I was going nuts.
Then he ran his tongue, with firm pressure down the crack of my ass until it slide it against my asshole and I thought I died and went to heaven ! OMG, this man they spent the next 45 to an hour minutes eating, licking, sucking, teasing, and dripping his saliva all over my asshole, at times jacking me off while his tongue was buried deep in my ass. He had me on my stomach, on my back with my legs in the air, on my hands and knees, and sitting on his face and riding his wet warm tongue. I must have cum 3 times and was going out of my mind. He showed me how incredibly erotic and sensual rimming can be, especially the tease and please aspect of making me want to feel his tongue in my hole, but edging me and driving me crazy until he put me out of my misery, lol.
I had never had that done to me, and his techniques and tongue was incredible. I truly learned what sensuality was and is when it comes to that specific pleasure. And since then, I have enjoyed doing that exact same process, with some twists and turns of my own, since then. I am so lucky to have been shown how pleasurable this can be.