I'm a mature closet cross-dresser. I enjoy dressing in lingerie, heels, make-up and nail polish in the privacy of my home. I prefer being submissive to a sexually aggressive top. But can also be an aggressive bottom. I do not rim or top. I'm ddf and have no interest in drinkers, druggies, or PNP. Stocky, furry men really get my attention but I am attracted to all body types except very skinny or obese. The chemistry and attitude is more important than looks. I am attracted to clean-cut, white, professional men or men in uniform. Facial hair is fine as long as it is well groomed. Sorry, but I am not attracted to other cross-dressers or men of color. I would like to find a friend who can accept my masculine persona in public and my fem role behind closed doors. I'm shy and rarely make the first move. I'm retired, divorced, live alone and can host. I enjoy touching and being touched. I love being spooned by a man and falling asleep in his arms. I am not into rough sex, WS, scat, or pain. A little light bondage is ok and I enjoy role play of all sorts.